Picture this: you’re cosied up at home, maybe with some relaxing music, scrolling through endless options of sex toys online. And while you’ve heard about the wonders of dildos, but with infinite choices, how do you know which one is right for you?
Whether you’re a seasoned toy pro or a curious beginner, selecting the best dildo can sometimes feel like an adventure — from choosing the best dildo material to the one that brings you the most joy and satisfaction. That’s why we’re happy to embark on this journey with you.
Understanding Different Dildo Materials
Due to the natural skin-on-skin contact, finding the best dildo materials is non-compromisable.
Each material offers its own unique properties, and understanding them helps you make the best decision possible for you, here’s what you need to know.
1. Silicone
It comes as no surprise that silicone tops the list. Known for its body-safe and non-porous properties, it is no wonder many opt for it when choosing the best dildo.
Silicone dildos are soft to the touch yet firm enough to provide powerful stimulation, they almost feel like the real thing. These dildos come in various shapes, colours, textures, and firmness levels. This is why we’re certain you'll be able to find your favourite within the silicone family.
2. Glass
If you like it hard, glass dildos are probably the ones you’re looking for. Made from body-safe borosilicate glass, these dildos are non-porous and are easy to clean.
Best of all, they can be heated or cooled down for a well-rounded sensation. Apart from that, glass dildos often have the most aesthetic-looking forms — truly one of the best dildo materials you can find.
3. Metal
Don’t worry if it puzzles you, metal dildos are typically made from stainless steel or aluminium. They’re known for their firmness and weight.
There is a unique fullness that creates a sensation unlike any other. Like glass dildos, metal dildos also are a great option for temperature play. They’re non-porous, easy-to-sanitise, and are safe for penetration and beyond.
4. TPE/TPR (Thermoplastic Elastomer/Rubber)
If you’re looking for a more affordable dildo, then TPE/TPR might be your best bet. These dildos are softer and more flexible than silicone, but are porous, meaning they can harbour bacteria if not cleaned thoroughly.
Due to their low-entry price point, they’re a popular choice amongst beginners. Because they are insertion-related, it’s best to ensure that they’re phthalate-free to avoid any health risks.
Factors to Consider Before Buying a Dildo
In case you didn’t know, there are a few other aspects to consider beyond just materials when shopping for dildos. These are the ones we feel you should take into account before adding to cart.
1. Size
Everyone says size matters (and it does). The best dildos are the ones that fit you best. From length to girth, it’s all about experimenting. We recommend starting smaller if you’re new to dildos and gradually growing in size and texture.
2. Shape
Some are straight, some are a little curved. From our experience, straight dildos are versatile and work great for vaginal and anal play, whereas curved dildos are C-spot and G-spot game-changers. Either way, the sensation from either one is unmatched!
3. Texture
The veins, ridges, and bumps make all the difference and you know it. When choosing a dildo, consider how it rubs up against your skin. The sensation provides a mind-blowing experience as it feels like the real thing.
4. Flexibility
Now, these are some of the sexiest dildos. Flexible dildos conform to your body’s natural curves, making them smoother and more comfortable. Imagine bending from position to position and experiencing an orgasm like never before.
5. Suction base or Harness Compatibility
These unique dildos provide a hands-free experience for the G-spot and C-spot. For suction-based dildos, all it requires is a flat surface like a floor or wall and a lot of gyrating.
Harness ones are strap-ons that are usually suited for partner play. They make foreplay and sex that much more enjoyable as they encourage role reversal in and out of the bedroom.
Features to Look for in a Dildo
1. Realistic design
Let’s face it — the more realistic, the better. Life-like dildos offer a greater look and feel with their defined details that make the experience that much more satisfying.
2. Dual-density
The best kind of dildos creates a balanced experience, offering a soft exterior and a firm core. It’s as close as it gets to an erect penis, perfect for gripping and grinding.
3. Vibrating dildos
If you prefer intense stimulation, vibrating dildos will elevate your pleasure adventure. They offer various vibration settings so you can customise your experience.
4. Temperature play compatibility
For those of you who like it hot, know that dildos that are made from glass and metal can be safely heated or cooled for that added sensation.
Examples of Dildos
We’ve done the research so you don’t have to. We’ve selected these hot picks based on performance, ease of use, design, and overall functionality. Check out these stunning dildos:
1. Passion Gradient Purple Dildo
Designed from liquid silicone, the Passion Gradient Purple Dildo has the ideal anatomy. From its glans to its shaft, it’s designed for gentle and intense pleasure. It’s your partner in foreplay, sex, orgasm, and more.
2. Heart Magic Wand
The Heart Magic Wand is one of our most aesthetically pleasing dildos, recording an impressive 20.5cm in length. This glass dildo has bulbs that make the insertion process more pleasurable and immersive. Topped with an adorable heart shape to make concealing this dildo a breeze.
3. Carrot Dildo
For something playful, we recommend checking out the Carrot Dildo — a bendy shaft that enriches your sexual escapades whether you’re going solo or engaging in partner play. Grab it, pull it, or jam it in deep, regardless, this dildo is a worthy keep.
4. Rainbow Dildo
How you’d like him to be hard, the Rainbow Dildo is the sex toy you’re looking for. It’s a suction type that sticks incredibly well on the floor or wall. Plus, the glans on this one is huge, perfect for anyone who wants a pounding session of epic proportions.
Safety Tips for Using Dildos
To ensure a safe and pleasurable experience, follow these tips:
1. Clean before and after use
We recommend cleaning your dildo using warm water and mild soap. Or if you have a specialised toy cleaner, that’s right as they prevent infections.
2. Use lubricant
For a smooth journey, using a good water-based lubricant will enhance comfort and pleasure. Remember, silicone-based lubes will degrade silicone dildos, so they’re a no-no.
3. Store properly
Keep your dildos in a cool and dry place. If you have a dedicated pouch or container for them, that’s even better as they reduce dust and bacteria coming in contact with it.
4. Check for damage
It’s essential to inspect your dildo regularly for signs of wear and tear. If you notice cracks, tears, or changes in its texture, it’s probably time to replace it.
5. Follow manufacturer’s instructions
To get the best use of your dildo, it’s best to always adhere to the manufacturer’s guidelines for proper use. Mostly because this ensures the longevity of your dildo.
Shop Dildos from Douxy
With that said typed, we’re sure you’ve learnt a thing or two about dildos by now — how to choose the right one for you, what are the different materials, and other factors to consider before choosing one.
At Douxy, we offer a wide change of dildos that look into your sexual well-being and lifestyle. Ultimately, pleasure is for everyone to enjoy. So, continue to seek pleasure using toys that elevate and enhance your sexual experience. Before you go, do check out our sex toys for women collection!
